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Therapists Get Depressed Too?

Posted by on Sep 21, 2016 in befriending pain, change, change inc, counseling, depression, ryan neace, Ryan Thomas Neace, St. Louis Counseling, therapist's inner life | 0 comments

Therapists Get Depressed Too?

I’ve been a little depressed lately.
Wait…did I say that out loud?
Doesn’t matter. It’s true either way. That’s right. I’m a therapist, and I’ve been depressed lately. It’s actually remarkable how predictable this sort of thing is for me.

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Change, Inc. in the News!

Posted by on Jul 14, 2016 in change inc, counseling, online behavior, relationships, ryan neace, Ryan Thomas Neace, social media | 0 comments

Change, Inc. in the News!

Did you see us in the St. Louis Post-Dispatch this week?  We were there!  Change, Inc. Founder and Clinical and Managing Director, Ryan Thomas Neace, was featured in an article discussing the impact of online behavior in relationships!  Click here to read!

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Positive Thinking or Plain Ol’ Denial?

Posted by on Jun 13, 2016 in change, change inc, counseling, denial, expectations, positive thinking, ryan neace, Ryan Thomas Neace, St. Louis Counseling, thinking positively, tips for success | 0 comments

Positive Thinking or Plain Ol’ Denial?

Thinking positively about the people in our lives acknowledges that they have flaws and faults which may have an impact on us, and allows us to make informed decisions about how to interact while still choosing to think of them positively. We do this by learning to expect nothing more than what they are capable of, and allowing ourselves the privilege of feeling warmly toward them about that helpful portion, however small it may be. There is no need for anger or frustration about the rest — we no longer expect it of them and trust them to be who they are (even if that means we...

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High School All Over Again? 4 Tips for Dealing with Adult Cliques

Posted by on Apr 5, 2016 in change inc, cliques, happiness, parents, relationships, St. Louis Counseling | 0 comments

High School All Over Again?  4 Tips for Dealing with Adult Cliques

I reached the apex of my childhood popularity in eighth grade, having rotated into the “most sought after guy” slot relatively frequently to that point with a handful of two or three others.

Then something happened.

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Happy New Year — I Bought You Some Therapy!

Posted by on Jan 15, 2016 in change inc, counseling, millennials, parents, ryan neace, Ryan Thomas Neace | 0 comments

Happy New Year — I Bought You Some Therapy!

Every year, phone calls pour in to Change, Inc. Nashville & St. Louis inquiring about referring some family member or loved one. You know – wayward children, beloved siblings, aging parents, etc. Many times, the callers are so concerned they’re considering paying for a beneficiary’s therapy themselves. In principle, gifting counseling services to a loved one is a sound proposition, but before you go blindly referring, here are few things to consider.

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Make Eggnog, Not Expectations

Posted by on Dec 17, 2015 in change inc, christmas, counseling, ryan neace, Ryan Thomas Neace, St. Louis Counseling | 0 comments

Make Eggnog, Not Expectations

Whether we’re celebrating Advent, Hanukah, Kwanzaa, the arrival of Saint Nick, or good old-fashioned family-togetherness, it’s only natural that we look forward to this time of year with hope and eagerness in our hearts.

But sometimes all of that hope and eagerness can begin to look an awful lot like expectations. You know, the kind that inevitably lead to disappointment, frustration, or sadness. They seem especially potent around the holidays.

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